Sandra E. Graham

What Price Justice?----Father Executes Son



Posted: Thursday, November 19, 2009

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When we hear the stories of child sexual abuse, we want the abuser to suffer and hurt the way their victims are hurt and suffer. The disgust and horror we feel as we think about these people, these strangers that we do not know, that can commit crimes of abuse against small children is magnified if we have young children ourselves.

But what of the abuser or pedophile that we do know, possibly even a family member? Are we so quick to judge harshly? Do we want a family member to suffer the same fate we would wish on a stranger, someone we haven't known all our lives? Would we require the same justice?

Apparently a father in Highland Park , Michigan feels that justice should be dealt out harshly even to family members and by family members of the abuser. The man's 15-year-old son confessed to his mother that he had had sexual contact with a 3-year-old girl. Horrified by the confession from her son, the mother calls his father and tells him what their son has just told her.

The enraged father comes home to mete out his own form of justice. Holding a gun to his son's head, the father forces the son to strip, then marches him out of the house while the boy and his mother cry and beg the father to stop. The boy is forced to kneel while his father shoots him several times in the head. An execution by any standards.

As horrible as the son's crime is, how can we justify this type of punishment? No one abhors child abuse more than I, but I would be hard pressed to justify the execution style killing of a 15-year-old boy. His crime was unconscionable, even for a 15-year-old, but he must have felt some remorse since he did go to his mother and confess. I seriously doubt that he was going to become an habitual molester as most habitual sex offenders and pedophiles don't confess until after they are caught red-handed. But, even so, what kind of father could arbitrarily shoot his son in the head while he knelt begging, "No, Daddy, No!", for his life.

I am all for punishment fitting the crime', but punishment needs to be dealt out by the law and beyond that, by God. So many criminals get away (or at least think they do) with their crimes, but I am a firm believer that those who do not receive their punishment here on earth will certainly receive judgment in the hereafter.



About the Author

Sandra E. Graham

Born in Walnut Ridge, Arkansas, Sandra graduated from Egypt High School in Egypt, Arkansas in 1965. Continuing her education by attending Eastfield College in Mesquite, Texas; Crowley’s Ridge Community College; Mississippi Community College; and finally back home to Arkansas State University in Jonesboro, Arkansas. She currently lives in Jonesboro with her husband, Donnie and a wealth of Grandchildren! Visit her website at www.wix.com/grahase/sandragrahamarticlesandbooks to see her newest publications. Sandra's books Amos Jakey and Nicolina are historical adventure books published by American Book publishing and may be purchased through pdbookstore.com, Amazon, Books in Print, Barnes and Noble, and Baker & Taylor. She also writes free book reviews for authors through Book Pleasures.
 
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» left by Marijo Phelps
2 years 84 days ago.
139 fans.
You've got to think maybe there was more to this - if those who abuse are usually themselves abused... maybe the father was afraid of what the son would tell when all this came out in the open? Sad, sad thing! Marijo
» left by Sandra E. Graham from Jonesboro, AR 2 years 84 days ago.
There weren't too many details to the story, so yes, anything is possible. Thanks for reading and commenting, Marijo.
 
Sandra
» left by Steve
from CA
2 years 84 days ago.
We don't even know what the son did exactly. What is this "inappropriate touching" that the mother described? May not have been anything more than a curious young teen inappropriately examining his baby sister, not really "sexual abuse" at all. I guess now we'll never know. No sympathy for the father from me. Whatever the circumstance turns out to be, he should never see the light of day.
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 83 days ago.
247 fans.
No, we may never know all the true details. But whatever, I just can't imagine a father shooting his son that way. Terrible, terrible tagedy.
 
Thanks for reading and commenting.
 
Sandra
» left by Andy Thomas
2 years 84 days ago.
12 fans.
A well written, balanced and sensitive article about a tragic and emotive subject.
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 83 days ago.
247 fans.
Thanks for reading and commenting, Andy. And welcome to Searchwarp.
 
Sandra
» left by brittany
from paragould
2 years 83 days ago.
hey great article very sad
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 83 days ago.
247 fans.
Thanks for reading and commenting, Brittany.
» left by David Pekrul
2 years 83 days ago.
66 fans.
I don't even know how to comment on this. It just gave me a horribly sick feeling, beyond description. In my job I see death on a daily basis. I think that's what made this story seem even more horrifying to me.
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 83 days ago.
247 fans.
It was such a terrible incident. Thanks for reading and commenting, David.
 
Sandra
» left by Linda DeWitt
2 years 83 days ago.
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Good points and well taken. You have such a gentle soul. I get really angry with the justice system over their protectionism against proven guilty predators but in this case I think that as David said it is horrific and beyond description.
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 83 days ago.
247 fans.
Thank you, Linda. I too, think the justice system is overly concerned with the criminal's rights; but this was just too much. Thanks for reading and commenting.
 
Sandra
» left by sue thom
from nj
2 years 81 days ago.
hi sandra,
 
great article.
 
and just think, the mother who had no idea what was going on until her son tells her, within hours, watches him beg for his life, and die.
 
i abhor sex offenders, always have, but let the law, as you said, deal with them. vengeance is mine, said the Lord. now, instead of the boy serving a sentence in jail, his father will take his place.
 
maybe he thought he was responsible?
 
thanks for sharing,
 
my best regards,
 
sue
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 80 days ago.
247 fans.
Thanks for reading and commenting, Sue. Have a great Thanksgiving!
 
Sandra
» left by Janice Holman 2 years 79 days ago.
6 fans.
the article was very helpful to me and it was a great article. To persuade the government to guarantee an adequately funded legal aid system ensuring quality representation and access to justice for all.
» left by Sandra E. Graham 2 years 77 days ago.
247 fans.
Thanks for reading and commenting, Janice. And welcome to Searchwarp.
 
Sandra
» left by Nancy Daniels
2 years 75 days ago.
Sandra,
 
I found this so disturbing that I couldn't respond when I read it.  I needed a few days to ruminate on this one. 
 
I question the father's history.  If the boy did abuse a toddler, what happened to this 15-year-old to prompt such an action assuming the story is correct?  Obviously his father is a loose cannon.  Is there much more to this than we know?
 
Thanks for a good article.
 
 
» left by Lorrie Davids
2 years 69 days ago.
96 fans.
I can't even imagine what went through the son's mind. What a horrible event, a permanent ending to a horrible situation for all.  Good article, Sandra.

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